The Importance of Patient Endurance

Have you ever laid hold of a promise of God, but become impatient when it did not come to pass on your timing? Have you ever been so impatient that you took matters into your own hand? Yes? So have I, and we are not alone–let’s journey back in time to revisit the story of Abraham and Sarah.

Genesis 12 tells of Abram’s call by God and His promise to bless him, and make of him a great nation. At the time Abram was 75 years old. In Genesis 13, God expands His covenant with Abram promising him great lands, and to multiply his offspring beyond counting. In Genesis 15, the Lord came to Abram in a vision promising to be his shield, and again promises to multiply his offspring.

By now Abram is getting pretty impatient with God and so is Sarai (Genesis 16). God has promised to give them a son several times. Years have passed and they still have no children, so they take matters into their own hands to “help God out” by giving Hagar, Sarai’s handmaiden to Abram so he can have an heir. Through this relationship with Hagar, Abram fathered Ishmael.

When Abram was 95 years old (Genesis 17) the Lord appears to Abram yet again, restating His covenant with Abram, saying He will multiply his offspring. God changes Abram’s name to Abraham, and Sarai to Sarah. God tells Abraham and Sarah in a year they will have a son and name him Isaac, whom God says He will bless and make into a great nation. In Genesis 18, the Lord appears to Abraham and Sarah yet again, restating His promise that in a year they will have a son. God’s promise is fulfilled in Genesis 21: Isaac is born to Abraham when Abraham is 100 years old.

Twenty-five years passed between the time that God first called Abram and promised to make him into a great nation, and when Isaac was finally born. As Abram and Sarai became impatient waiting for God to fulfill His promise, they decided to help God out by having a child with Hagar. But the child with Hagar was not the child God promised.

The lesson to take away is that when God makes a promise He will fulfill it. He does not need our “help” to make it come to pass. More often than not, when we decide to help God by taking matters into our own hands we make a mess of things. It is far better to endure with patience: “They who wait for the LORD shall renew their strength; they shall mount up with wings like eagles; they shall run and not be weary; they shall walk and not faint” (Isaiah 40:31).

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When is Enough not Enough?

Genesis records Jacob, the son of Isaac, traveling to the land of Paddan-aram where he lived for some twenty years. While there, he married Leah and Rachel, and tended his father-in-law, Laban’s flocks. Jacob fell out of favor with Laban, and the Lord told Jacob to travel back to the land of his fathers.

One day as they traveled, Jacob sees his brother Esau off in the distance. He sends flocks ahead as a present to Esau in hopes that the peace offering will be met with favor. Esau asks about the gift of the flocks, telling Jacob to keep them as he already has “enough.” Jacob responds, please take them, “because God has dealt graciously with me, and because I have enough” (Gen. 33:4-11).

It would seem both men have “enough.” Interestingly though, the word translated “enough” in these two verses is not he same Hebrew word. Esau’s “enough” is the Hebrew word rab, which means “much.” But Jacob’s “enough” is the Hebrew word kōl, which means “all,” and is a derivative of the word kālal which means perfect.

So why all the fuss you might ask? Enough is enough, right? No! Esau’s enough is “much,” referring to earthly possessions. But, despite his trials and difficulties with Laban, his twenty years of labor, having to flee with his family and flocks back to his home country, and wrestling with God all night, Jacob says he has “all.” Jacob’s “all” includes God! Jacob recognizes that without God, no matter how much or little he has in terms of earthly possessions, it is always enough when it includes God. In fact, it is just perfect!

So the next time someone asks you when enough is enough, tell them enough is never enough, until it includes God. Then it is all!

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Surviving Storms

Whether you are just beginning your career or are a seasoned veteran I am willing to bet at some point you faced a storm that threatened to capsize your career. Surviving a storm is never fun, but it is often a period of significant personal growth.  We can improve our ability to survive life’s storms if we keep in mind some truths Jesus taught the disciples.

Recorded in Matthew 8, Mark 4, and Luke 8 is the miracle of Jesus calming the storm. Just prior, Jesus had been teaching the disciples through parables about the new Kingdom. At the conclusion of these teachings Jesus tells the disciples to get in the boat and go to the other side of the lake. A terrible storm comes upon the boat threatening to capsize it. The disciples in fear of their lives, wake up a sleeping Jesus and implore Him to save them. Jesus rebukes the sea, and asks the disciples if they still have such little faith.

35 On that day, when evening had come, he said to them, “Let us go across to the other side.” 36 And leaving the crowd, they took him with them in the boat, just as he was. And other boats were with him. 37 And a great windstorm arose, and the waves were breaking into the boat, so that the boat was already filling. 38 But he was in the stern, asleep on the cushion. And they woke him and said to him, “Teacher, do you not care that we are perishing?” 39 And he awoke and rebuked the wind and said to the sea, “Peace! Be still!” And the wind ceased, and there was a great calm. 40 He said to them, “Why are you so afraid? Have you still no faith?” 41 And they were filled with great fear and said to one another, “Who then is this, that even the wind and the sea obey him?” Mark 4:35-41 (ESV)

There are five important lessons about surviving storms in this short passage:

1) Jesus put them in the storm. The truth is life is not all about achieving personal comfort—there will be storms in our lives—especially when we follow Jesus. We don’t grow much when we are comfortable, but we can grow a lot by surviving storms. Jesus knew there would be a storm and He used the storm to teach the disciples another important lesson.

2) Jesus cares about your anxiety. Jesus could have sent the disciples on ahead in the boat to face the storm on their own, but He did not. He never left their side, and He is with us always.

3) Jesus has the power to make a difference. It may not be when or how we want it, but He has the ultimate power to make a difference in our lives. Jesus rebuked the wind and the sea quieting the storm with the spoken word.

4) My fear hinders my faith. These seasoned sailors, familiar with the sudden storms, knew they were in trouble and panicked thinking they were about to perish. Just earlier in the day Jesus had been teaching the disciples about the glories of the new Kingdom, but in this moment of desperation and fear they forgot what Jesus had been teaching them.

5) Never lose sight of the power of Jesus in my life. After Jesus calms the storm the disciples wonder who is this that even the wind and sea obey Him? Haven’t they been paying attention? How easy it is in the midst of a storm to take control and try to weather it all on our own power. We forget the power of Jesus in our lives!

There will be storms in our lives, but they are opportunities for great personal growth if we remember that Jesus cares about us, and He has the power to make a difference in our lives. Remember also that our fear is the greatest barrier to our faith and relying on Jesus. I love this quote, “Faith isn’t faith until it is all you’re holding on to.”  Finally, surviving a storm is easiest if we never lose sight of the awesome power of Jesus and what He can do!

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Success!

It is nice to be successful. We want to be successful. So why is it that so many people who have achieved worldly success seem to be the least satisfied? This article examines twelve steps to help you become successful in a way that will also provide lasting satisfaction:

1. Begin and end every workday with God.

2. Focus on a vision.

3. Define your purpose or mission.

4. Set and measure your own goals.

5. Think constructively.

6. Keep the vision in mind.

7. Reward and discipline yourself.

8. Create energy for success by staying physically fit.

9. Develop, protect, and maintain your integrity.

10. Learn from adversity and failure

11. Motivate yourself.

12. Develop your skill sets.

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Is Your Community Spiritually Dead?

I spoke to my jet-lagged daughter, Rebekah, today about her church’s recent mission trip Uganda. They flew from Boston to international city “X” where the group had several hours before the final leg of their flight to Uganda. Most of the group had never been to “X” so they set out to explore the sights and have a nice meal. I asked her what she thought of the city and she said it felt spiritually dead. “Christianity is old people’s religion,” she said, as she summarized interaction with “X’ers” and specifically their waiter, who clearly was not interested in serving their culturally diverse group.

Now, I have some friends who live in “X” and they are wonderful people, so I certainly don’t want to characterize everyone who lives there as spiritually dead. But Rebekah’s perception of the city stuck with me, and caused me to wonder, “What would a tourist think of you and your community?” Would they come away thinking, “These folks are friendly and outgoing?” Would they describe your community as “spiritually alive?” Or, would they describe you and your community as spiritually dead?

As Christians we are called to be a light to the world. Jesus said, “Let your light shine before men in such a way that they may see your good works, and glorify your Father who is in heaven” Matthew 5:16 (NASB).

Moreover, we should be joyful, reflecting the love of Christ to everyone—even our enemies. Love and joy are two fruits of the Spirit (Gal 5:22-23). If we are children of God then love and joy should be evident in our lives, not just on Sunday as we enter church, but throughout the week.

Now this love and joy thing can be hard for me: especially with folks who I don’t consider to be close friends, much less those who I would place on my “enemies” list. It is especially hard when I am in a hurry, up against a deadline, or just plain pre-occupied with my own thoughts. My loving wife and daughter used to ask me if “I was having my period” (sorry ladies), because love and joy (and other fruits of the Spirit) were in short supply in my life right then. Ouch!

So here is my plan for tomorrow and the next week. I am going to try my best to have a smile on my face for everyone I meet. I will have a cheery “hello” for complete strangers I pass on the street. I am going to pretend that every interaction is with a tourist who is visiting for the first time, and I want them to go home and say what a wonderful place my community is. I want them to see the love of Christ reflected in my life. My plan for the week after is to do an even better job than the week before, because every week is a chance to glorify my Father who is in heaven!

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The Promise, Power, and Purpose of Pentecost

Pentecost is celebrated 50 days following Passover, concluding the “Feast of Weeks” (also known as the “Feast of First Fruits”). Christ was resurrected on the first day of the Feast of First Fruits and He fulfilled His promise to send the Holy Spirit on the last day of the feast, Pentecost.  For most Christians Pentecost is considered the birthday of the church as the spiritual body of Christ.

Today (I am writing this on Sunday) is Pentecost Sunday, so today we celebrate the birthday of the church!!! The events surrounding the birth of the church are recorded in Acts 2. It is a relatively short chapter of only 47 verses so if you haven’t read it in a while take a break from your afternoon and read this powerful chapter.

Books have been written on this one chapter, but today I want to call out three important points: a promise fulfilled, the power released, and a purpose in Christ.

Promise Fulfilled. Jesus promised that when He left the disciples He would send a counselor:

But the Helper, the Holy Spirit, whom the Father will send in my name, he will teach you all things and bring to your remembrance all that I have said to you. John 14:26 (ESV)

This promise is fulfilled in Acts 2:4:

And they were all filled with the Holy Spirit and began to speak in other tongues as the Spirit gave them utterance. Acts 2:4 (ESV)

Power Released. The power of the Holy Spirit has come upon us enabling us to be witnesses to the world:

But you will receive power when the Holy Spirit has come upon you, and you will be my witnesses in Jerusalem and in all Judea and Samaria, and to the end of the earth.” Acts 1:8 (ESV)

Purpose in Christ. Following the baptism of the Holy Spirit believers came together attending temple, breaking bread, and praising God:

And day by day, attending the temple together and breaking bread in their homes, they received their food with glad and generous hearts, praising God and having favor with all the people. Acts 2:46-47 (ESV)

A pastor I listened to recently said there are only two times to praise God. “What!” I thought, “Is he serious?” Then he added, “When we feel like it, and when we don’t feel like it!” I agree, the time to praise God is when we feel like it, and when we don’t. So any time is a good to to praise God!

As you celebrate Pentecost Sunday and the birth of the church, remember that we celebrate the fulfilled promise of the Holy Spirit: our personal counselor sent by Christ. When the Spirit is received it releases a power in us to testify to Christ throughout the world. Finally, our purpose as we come together in unity as Christians is to testify to the glory of God and praise Him.

Those of you in the workforce consider that you have 40, 60, and some even more hours every week to testify to the glory of God in your workplace. Your personal testimony of Christ can bring light into a darkened world. No matter what you do at work, at some point it will pass away, but the impact you make on those your work with can last into eternity.

Happy Birthday!

 

 

 

 

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Despised and Rejected of Men!

OK, I admit it. I was once insulted by a customer. I was even insulted by one of my co-workers! I know it is hard to believe but over a 36-year business career it was bound to happen eventually.

What does the Bible have to say about dealing with those who insult us? Well, it turns out it doesn’t matter much whether the insult stems from a customer, a co-worker, a friend, or a family member.

First, don’t return the insult.

Jesus said, “…if anyone slaps you on the right cheek, turn to him the other also.” (Matthew 5:39b ESV).

In Jesus’ day slapping someone on the right cheek was the gravest form of insult short of physical violence. Jesus’ instruction is regardless of the severity of the insult, we are not to take personal revenge. We should not be overcome by evil, but overcome evil with good (Romans 12:21).

Next, pray a blessing for the person who insulted you.

“bless those who curse you, pray for those who abuse you.” (Luke 6:28 ESV).

Do not repay evil for evil or reviling for reviling, but on the contrary, bless, for to this you were called, that you may obtain a blessing.” (1 Peter 3:9 ESV).

I know from first-hand experience the temptation to return an insult with one of your own is great, but the escalation that often results accomplishes nothing. It does not solve the problem that led to the initial insult, and it does nothing to show God’s love.

Rather than returning an insult with another insult, turn the other cheek and say a prayer of blessing on your accuser. We are all God’s children, and we are all imperfect vessels. Let’s do what we can to reflect God’s love and mercy to everyone–even those who insult us!

 

 

 

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Telling Lies in Business–OK or Not ok??

Two weeks ago I saw an article about how CEO’s in the U.S. have lied to shareholders, Congress, and the public at large in an effort to advance their business, or cover up their wrongdoing in other areas–heaping lie upon lie. The very same week I saw another article for employees, this one was eight ways to lie to your boss and not get caught.

Is it any wonder that the public casts a sullied eye on business people? The overall reputation of business executive places them just ahead of politicians and attorneys (apologies to my friends in politics and law).

In my adventures to Christian college campuses I frequently hear students in the department of business complain they are looked down on by those in the “arts and sciences.” They haven’t done anything, yet they feel like the “B” team of society.

Folks, this is simply unacceptable. As Christians we need to represent or Lord and Savior honorably. We need to be salt and light to the world. How can we expect the unbeliever to see something different about a life in Christ if we do not represent Christ well? Our pastor have an hour, maybe and hour and a half, to bring a message about life with our Savior. But as business people we have 40-60 hours per week where our witness tells a story of our life with Jesus.

John, writing to believers, provided instruction on how Christians should lead an ethical life. One of my favorite passages that sums up a great deal of his teaching is 1 John 2:15-17 (ESV):

15 Do not love the world or the things in the world. If anyone loves the world, the love of the Father is not in him.
16 For all that is in the world— the desires of the flesh and the desires of the eyes and pride in possessions—is not from the Father but is from the world.
17 And the world is passing away along with its desires, but whoever does the will of God abides forever.

John warns us not to love the world or the things of the world. Notice John goes on to call out three specific issues: 1) desires of the flesh, 2) desires of the eyes, and 3) pride in possessions. The desires of the flesh is about the quest for pleasure. The desires of the eyes is about the envy of others possessions/things. The pride in possessions is about our prideful hearts. Most sins accrue to one of these three causes: the quest for pleasure, and possessions, and prideful spirit.

How is it for you? Do you work in an environment where it is difficult to maintain your ethical edge as a Christian? How are you an example of God’s truth in the workplace?

 

 

 

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The Executive Enabler–Enabling Organizations Increases Productivity
There has been a lot of talk in business about the benefits of “coaching” employees as a means to increasing productivity. In this article we will consider the example of Nehemiah and eight things he did to rebuild the city of Jerusalem, and the power of what I call the “executive enabler.” See how Nehemiah: 1. removed barriers, 2. empowered the workers, 3. encouraged risk-taking, 4. leveraged diversity, 5. provided autonomy, 6. motivated and inspired the workers, 7. rewarded and recognized performance and, 8. encouraged followership. Leveraging these same eight characteristics will put you well on your way to increased organizational productivity as an “executive enabler.”
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Wisdom from man or wisdom from God, which will it be?

In college, and for much of my adult life I thought the accumulation of knowledge, for knowledge’s sake was a great thing. (If you ask my family they will tell you I am full of “worthless knowledge.”)

Somewhere along the way I realized unless I could apply that knowledge to produce a good result it was, well, basically worthless. That is what wisdom is–it is the ability to apply knowledge to produce a good result–it is knowing the difference between right and wrong and taking the right course.

Now that I am a tad bit older I recognize that while knowledge is great, wisdom is far better. The book of Proverbs has a lot to say about wisdom, but one of my favorite verses is 4:6: “Do not forsake wisdom, and she will protect you; love her, and she will watch over you.” What a powerful image! Wisdom will protect me and watch over me!!

But is all wisdom created equal? James, the very practical half brother of Jesus, tells us no, it is not. In James 3 he tells us there are two kinds of wisdom: there is wisdom that originates with man, and wisdom that originates with God. Regarding the wisdom of man James says, “it is earthly, sensual, and of the devil.” Man’s wisdom is of the world, it is sensual, and of the devil. Man’s wisdom manifests as bitter envy and selfish ambition, and is the cause of disorder and evil practices.

God’s wisdom, on the other hand is pure, peace-loving, considerate, submissive, full of mercy and good fruit, and impartial and sincere. God’s wisdom results in a harvest of righteousness.

It is pretty easy to see man’s wisdom in my life: it shows up as envy and selfishness. It is just as easy to see God’s wisdom reflected in my life: I have pure motives when I make a decision, when I work for peace in a situation, when I am considerate of even those who cut me off on the freeway, when I am merciful and display the fruit of the spirit, and when I am impartial to everyone and sincere in my actions.

So, what will it be for you today? Will you try to run your life on your own power exercising man’s wisdom, or turn your life over to God and seek righteousness in His wisdom?

 

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